If These 11 Things Immediately Put You In A Bad Mood, You're Likely A Seriously Smart Person
Krakenimages.com | ShutterstockIf something puts you in a bad mood, it’s obviously bringing you down. Sometimes, this happens over silly stuff. However, there may be a bit of intelligence behind that feeling of irritation.
One study found that our emotions affect our logical reasoning. Sometimes, what gets under our skin can be a sign of intelligence. Things like being irritated by people who are not trained to hold a position of power show how you understand the world around you. You don’t have patience for incompetence, and if it impacts your mood, it may be because you are a seriously smart person. Next time one of these things bothers you, reflect on how it might make you more intelligent than the average person.
Here are 11 things that immediately put smart people in a bad mood:
1. Surface-level conversations
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We’ve all met people who can’t carry on a conversation. It feels like pulling teeth. Most likely, you have to pick up the slack. You’re the one asking questions. However, they likely aren't asking them back. The conversation lacks flow and entertainment.
If this puts you in a bad mood immediately, you’re not alone. Surface-level conversations can feel draining. It’s almost like neither person talking actually cares about what the other is saying. Small talk can feel like a disaster to people who long for deeper conversations.
2. Flaky people
I value friendships with people I can rely on. This doesn’t mean that there isn’t room to cancel plans. However, it needs to be done respectfully. If someone is flaking on you, it could be a sign that they do not value friendship. They might be difficult people. This will likely put you in a bad mood immediately.
Being frustrated by this behavior, you are a seriously smart person. You know your worth and aren’t going to take less than you deserve. Instead of waiting around to see if this person ever gets better, you may choose to walk away. This is a sign that you value yourself and want to protect your peace.
3. Being micromanaged
Being micromanaged can feel defeating. It seems like the person watching over you doesn’t trust your ability. If this happens at work, it can feel especially troubling. This can make you feel like you’re not good enough at your job. For some, this is their way of leadership. Many people struggle to work under these conditions. If you can relate, and it puts you in a bad mood, you might be smarter than the average person.
Micromanagement has been shown to weaken creativity. It’s dysfunctional in a workplace and, honestly, lazy. If you’re bothered by this, you’re not alone. You’re actually pretty smart.
4. Poor leaders
Leadership makes a difference. If you’re working with someone who can’t handle the role, it’s frustrating. It isn’t always in the workplace. This can occur in friendships or public spaces. If someone feels like they’re missing the point, it’s normal to feel frustrated. If it puts you in a bad mood, you may be smarter than the average person.
A poor leader may expect loyalty without earning it. They want you to put endless trust in them, but do not try to gain your trust. Instead, they feel entitled to it, which may make you angry.
5. Slow walkers
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Have you ever been in a hurry? You’re trying to get somewhere important. Maybe you’re late picking up your kids from school, or are rushing to a doctor's appointment. No matter the reason, slow walkers can be annoying. Even if you’re not in a rush, it can be frustrating to get stuck behind people who are moving slowly.
If you’re driven crazy by people who stop in the middle of walking to do something like text someone back, you may be smarter than the average person. They’re not only being annoying, but they are also breaking social rules. “When walkers suddenly stop as they seem mesmerized by their tiny mobile device, they are violating normative paths that compel nearby pedestrians in both directions to negotiate their way around them,” says Leon James, a psychology professor at the University of Hawaiʻi at Manoa’s College of Social Sciences and leading scholar of sidewalk rage.
6. Inauthenticity
Most of us value people who are honest about who they are. When someone is authentic, we can connect with them on a deep level. We feel like we actually know them. If someone is pretending to be something they’re not, it’s frustrating. When you find out they’ve been inauthentic all along, it’s hurtful.
If finding out someone you liked wasn’t being true to themselves put you in a bad mood, you’re likely a seriously smart person. You know, people who pretend to be something they’re not aren’t honest. They won’t be able to give you genuine friendship or connection. It can be especially upsetting when the inauthentic person is someone you were dating.
7. Constant noise
I don’t know about you, but noise is one of my biggest triggers. Unfortunately, it can be unavoidable. Sometimes, noisy environments prevent me from thinking thoroughly. This can impact my work or mood. If someone makes a lot of noise around me that triggers this feeling, I can be instantly put into a bad mood.
If you’re bothered by noises, you may have misophonia, a condition marked by low tolerance for noise. You may be smarter than the average person because you need complete silence to focus. While this isn’t always achievable, it shows you understand your limits and what you need for success.
8. Selfish people
Selfish people are difficult. They’ll never put you before themselves. In fact, they may use you to get what they want. It’s painful to try to be friends with someone like this. Navigating one-sided relationships is painful. It can make spending time with them draining.
If you’re around a selfish person, you likely know how they act. They may be unkind, show no remorse, and always ask for favors without repaying them. If this behavior makes you angry, you might be a seriously smart person. You don’t want to put up with poor treatment, and you’d rather focus your attention on people who care about you.
9. People who refuse to take accountability
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Along with selfish people, it’s not easy to be around someone who refuses to take accountability for their actions. When someone hurts your feelings, you want them to apologize. However, it’s not something everyone can do. Some people refuse to see their own flaws. Instead, they will blame you. Suddenly, you’re feeling gaslit and hurt.
Taking accountability feels like the bare minimum when someone hurts us. If you have no patience for this bad behavior, you are probably a seriously smart person. You don’t have patience for people who don’t own their mistakes.
10. Redundant tasks
Doing the same thing over and over again is annoying. Whether it’s a task at work that feels below your capabilities or dealing with annoying household chores, these tasks can feel frustrating. While these tasks may be easy, they can still be annoying. If you want more of a challenge in your daily routine, you are probably smarter than the average person. You are seeking more mental stimulation instead of easy, redundant tasks.
You may want to do more complex tasks that take longer. Maybe it’s something at work that takes days to complete. A bigger task that you can break down and do over time without being annoyed by the redundancy. Your brain needs more than just an easy task.
11. Overcrowded spaces
Crowds are overwhelming. Even if you don’t particularly hate them, they can be difficult. If you also dislike slow walkers, this can be a nightmare. People are hard to deal with as is; when there are too many people in one space, you may feel nervous or frustrated. It could be that you are smarter than some other people.
If you have a fear of overcrowded places, this can come from deep within you. You may be following your gut. If you sense danger, you want to avoid it. That makes you intelligent.
Haley Van Horn is a freelance writer with a master’s degree in Humanities, living in Los Angeles. Her focus includes entertainment and lifestyle stories.
